#602
Growing up, I never viewed myself through the lens of being Indian or even Tamilian. My identity has always been shaped by deeper and broader connections—first as an Iyer, (My Community and values)then as a human being, a global citizen, and perhaps most strongly, a family man. While many might find it unusual or even controversial, this perspective has shaped who I am and how I navigate the world.I’ve been reflecting on this after coming across several tweets and discussions that align with my views. I think my outlook stems from several factors, each influencing my sense of self and belonging:
1. Education and a Broader Perspective
From an early age, education exposed me to ideas far beyond my immediate environment. The curriculum emphasised values like respect, empathy, and kindness—qualities that transcend borders. I was taught that being a good human being was far more important than aligning with any particular regional or national identity. This foundation shaped my belief that personal values, not geographical boundaries, define character.
2. Exposure to International Affairs and Events
Even as a child, my interests gravitated toward international affairs and global events. Reading about world history, revolutions, and the lives of influential figures provided me with a perspective that naturally rose above the confines of local or regional issues. I rarely found myself preoccupied with what was happening within Tamil Nadu or India when the world seemed so much larger and more fascinating.
3. Values of Humanity Over Local Morality
At home and school, the values instilled in me were simple but profound: respect others, care for those in need, and if you can’t do good, at least don’t do harm. These principles were universal, not tied to any nation, religion, or culture. They were about being a good human being, and that’s a value that resonates globally.
4. Libraries: My Gateway to the World
The library became my sanctuary as I grew older. Books opened my mind to the world’s richness—its literature, history, art, and cultures. Reading about global events, philosophical thoughts, and fiction from authors across continents gave me a broader appreciation of life. It made me realise that the world’s treasures and lessons could never be confined to a single country or culture.
5. India’s Skewed Systems and Disconnect
While I acknowledge India’s contributions to my life—its lessons, values, and opportunities—I’ve also seen its flaws up close. Growing up in Tamil Nadu, I witnessed societal structures, biases, and inefficiencies that alienated me. I developed my own resourcefulness and support systems, often feeling out of sync with the identity imposed by the larger system. The Political system here is a deep disappointment to say the least.
6. Global Citizenship Over Nationalism
In my 30s, international travel expanded my worldview further. The discipline of the Japanese, the large-heartedness of the Americans, the punctuality of the Koreans, and the religious devoutness of the Pakistanis, the hardwork of Chinese—all resonated with me in ways that no single identity could. I realised I could draw from the best of every culture and blend these values into my own life. Nationalism felt restrictive in comparison.
7. Marriage as a Deliberate Choice
Despite my global outlook, I was clear about one thing—I wanted to marry an Indian woman. This decision wasn’t driven by nationalism but by a desire for shared values and cultural comfort within the family. It was a conscious choice to ensure compatibility and continuity in our personal lives, blending the global with the personal. My wife has been a critical pillar in my life, grounding me while allowing me to embrace my global identity.
8. Global Role Models
Throughout my life, I’ve drawn inspiration from leaders who transcended their immediate environments and thought globally. Winston Churchill’s resilience and foresight, John F. Kennedy’s vision for a united world, and Gandhi’s emphasis on values like nonviolence and truth have profoundly influenced me. These figures, despite their flaws, demonstrated the power of thinking beyond borders and leading with purpose.
9. Cultural Adaptability
Within India, I’ve seamlessly fit into diverse states and cultures, speaking five languages with ease. This adaptability is rooted in my belief that humans are fundamentally the same despite regional differences. It’s this ability to embrace diversity that has shaped my identity beyond being Indian.
10. Critique of Overblown Identity Politics
Identity politics—be it nationalism, regionalism, or religion—often feels overblown to me. These constructs frequently create divisions rather than unity. I’ve observed how excessive focus on these aspects can distract from solving universal issues like poverty, education, and climate change. My global outlook, in contrast, emphasises collaboration over competition, inclusion over exclusion.
11. The Role of Technology in Shaping Identity
Technology has played a significant role in reinforcing my global perspective. The internet, media, and connectivity have dissolved many borders, allowing me to engage with ideas and people far beyond India. This digital interconnectedness has made rigid national or cultural boundaries seem increasingly obsolete.
12. Why Global Citizenship Matters
In today’s world, global challenges like pandemics, climate change, and economic instability require collective action. Viewing oneself as a global citizen helps prioritise shared progress over narrow interests. I’ve always believed that collaboration across borders is the key to addressing humanity’s biggest challenges.
13. Indian Contributions I Admire
This is not to say I reject India entirely. There are aspects of Indian culture and values I deeply admire and have embraced, such as the concept of ahimsa, the strength of family bonds, and the spiritual richness of its traditions. These values have complemented my global outlook, grounding me in humility and respect. I decided to stay here to take care of my parents,when I could have easily moved on to greener pastures for a different living standards.
14. Borders and Migration: A Paradox
Having travelled extensively, I often reflect on the paradox of borders. They are human constructs, often arbitrary, yet they significantly shape opportunities and identities. While passports and currencies are practical necessities, they shouldn’t define our essence. Humanity, in its truest sense, transcends these lines on a map.
15. Responsibility Without Boundaries
I have always stepped up to my responsibilities as a citizen, whether contributing to society, supporting a cause, or fulfilling my civic duties. But my actions stem from a personal sense of responsibility, not from an obligation tied to nationality.
16. Living Beyond Labels
Ultimately, I am who I am—an amalgamation of values, experiences, and perspectives drawn from the world. I do not reject my Indian roots, but neither do I allow them to define me entirely. I’ve learned to live with a sense of independence and openness that transcends borders.
So, when someone asks me about my identity, I say this:
I am as large-hearted as an American, as disciplined as a Japanese, as punctual as a Korean, and as devout as a Pakistani. Above all, I am human—a global citizen who values the richness of life wherever it comes from.
Nationalism, religion, or regionalism may define others. For me, they are merely facets of a larger, more expansive journey. I live by my own values, contributing where I can, while staying true to who I am.
Karthik
8th Dec 2024, 930am.
